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For our Aging Service Veterans: You are Appreciated, Super-Heroes.

Posted in Death on November 12, 2018 by Morguie

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Veteran’s Day 2018

Posted in Death on November 11, 2018 by Morguie
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My father, U.S. Navy, late 1950’s.

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Thank you to all Veterans, past and present, for your service and sacrifices made in the defense of our great nation, The United States of America.

Losing My Mother

Posted in Death on November 10, 2018 by Morguie

On October 3rd, my beloved, beautiful mother, Kathleen, left this world. Although we had been expecting her death for some time, I have learned that all the anticipation and preparation in the world could not soften or lessen the blow of the pain and sorrow that came after. In fact, the first day or two after she died, I was mostly ‘okay.’  I thought maybe I’d prepared myself enough to get away without the kind of sorrow my father’s death brought.

But…I am sadly mistaken. Underscore sadly

Unlike Daddy’s  death, however, Mama’s is quite a different feeling of loss. One that has taken me over and left a huge hole in my soul. Almost like a piece of me died, too.  But, I didn’t really notice right away — I had taken care of the business of funeral and burial arrangements, gotten through the services, and right after that went on a pre-planned driving tour across several states, distracted and happily taking that welcome break to just get away for a minute… knowing full well that I had a great load awaiting my attention upon returning home. Mom made me the executor and I have so much to take care of. So, when I got home…it all began to sink in.

I find I am slipping in and out of the darkness of grief, like an animal moving stealthily between the shadows and light. I emerge from the depths and shadows of my sadness only to find it no better in the light. Sort of a ‘now you see me, now you don’t’ thing. I easily fall back into the abyss when left alone with thoughts,  clutching onto memories, and then longing to hear her voice, her laugh. Sometimes I feel like the sadness is choking the breath out of me. I know this is normal. I hope.

I am ‘good’ if I can keep my focus off of this hole in my soul… if I can be distracted, or find the power to overcome the utter inability to pull myself up and out of this chair and join the land of the living.

I am downright soggy today.

Damn it! I really had this handled, in the beginning, I did. Really.

But, as the first month has passed, I am keen to notice the effect has grown more, not less.

I feel like I can’t square this notion that she is no longer of this world.

Is it possible to be a 50-something ‘orphan?’ If so, then I am… an orphan, now.

Thank God I have a sister in this with me… she’s an orphan, too, I suppose. At least we can be orphaned, together. We are relieved that we only had to bury our parents ONE TIME. We couldn’t imagine having to go through this loss and stuff again.

I want to share my Mama, and my take on what she was all about, with you over the upcoming posts. She was very much a one-of-a-kind personality, boy! I think you will enjoy getting to know her, and while I am ‘sharing her’ maybe, just maybe, I can begin to feel better, too.  I hope you will return to see her story.

For now, here are some assorted pictures of her from her young adulthood, early marriage and motherhood years… my always special, always beautiful, inside-and-out, Mama.

Graduate R.N.  circa 1959

 

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My beautiful picture

Mom looks overjoyed at the prospect of having a baby, NOT. Maternity was something she learned one day at a time, lol. I am that bun in the oven, 1964.

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Late 60’s — it looks like I must have had to pee, here. lol. We didn’t have kiddie car seats, we had ‘harnesses.’

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My parents, newlyweds, here. 1963

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Mom with my baby sister and I…1966. Daddy always liked to take family pictures after Sunday morning Mass, while we were all dressed up and looking good.

Mousie’s Gone Martian!

Posted in Death on August 2, 2018 by Morguie

It’s later than I think!!! Yikes!!! I promise that we haven’t totally fallen off of the planet… we are hanging by our toes. SO MUCH to catch up on with my dear followers…can’t believe it has been ‘years.’ UGH! Keep the faith, we WILL be back, hopefully very soon!

A View From Under The Prep-Room Table: A Mouse's True Stories of Life In A Mortuary

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Gosh, can’t a mouse have a little peace and vacation time without the paparazzo? 
So, there you have it kids, that’s why you haven’t seen me in a while….
Hope this finds you all well…I have been away and thus unable to keep regular in here…but I hope you haven’t given up on us…we will be back as soon as the holidays pass, maybe sooner. Take care, and thanks for stopping in to see what we are up to.

CJ and Morguie

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